妹妹重新翻 RBG， 说她很lucky， 有一个这么supportive husband 
Trudy 没有， Amelia 结婚很晚，老公是二婚，也没有看出有多珍惜她；
Jane Goodall呢，third door 里头有对她的采访， 
Leakey 一开始是觊觎她的，但她眼里只有猩猩，说：
if I just reject his advances, maybe I’ll lose my chance at the chimps. 
He never explicitly proposed anything; it was just the way he was, you know? 
but of course, I rejected it anyway. 
and he respected it because he was a decent person. he wasn't a predator 
就像拂掉一片落叶 "He just fell for my charms, He wasn't the only one either, so I'm kind of used to it"

有些事情一个巴掌拍不响，象Jane这么清醒的，能让渣男焕发出decent的一面 
以前女性没有职场机会，年轻貌美几乎是唯一筹码的情形下，她知道自己美而不走雌竞，这一点就足以成为榜样    

妹妹又看了一会儿说， RBG 真的很幸运，不仅有一个好妈妈，好husband, 连她的father in law 都很好